Introduction to Friendship and Gifting
In Stardew Valley you can make friends with the locals by talking to them and giving them gifts. Making friends with different villagers will unlock new and usefull benefits or rewards that will help you in your playthrough.
Each villager has a ‘friendship score’ represented by a ten-heart meter for normal villagers, or a fourteen-heart meter for your spouse. Fully completing these hearts for someone will lock in the friendship, this means it can no longer decay over time.
Every
in the friendship meter is equivalent to 250XP, that XP can be gained or lost through various actions you can do. These actions are as follows;
Ways to gain friendship XP
- Talking to villagers (+10)
- Completing an Item Delivery Quest (+150)
- Giving different gifts (Will be explained further in this guide)
- Making good choices during the character’s Heart Event
Ways to lose friendship XP
- Not talking to a villager (Friendship will decay overtime depending on what status they are)
- Giving a gift they dislike or hate
- Hitting them with a slingshot (-30)
- Rummaging through a trashcan within a radius of 7 tiles, with the exception of Linus (-25)
But there is a little bit more to gifting than might seem at first glance. There are two more things that influence the amount of friendship XP you’ll gain when giving a gift. First, the taste and when you give the gift will increase or decrease the amount of XP you will gain from gifting. Below I have a handy table which details how this works.
Gift Taste | Normal | Winter Star, 25th of Winter (x5) |
Birthday (x8) |
Love | +80 | +400 | +640 |
Like | +45 | +255 | +360 |
Neutral | +20 | +100 | +160 |
Dislike | -20 | -100 | -160 |
Hate | -40 | -200 | -320 |
If a gift is liked or loved, the points gained will be further affected by quality of the item;
These are the very basics of friendship in Stardew Valley. For a more detailed explaination with every possible way to increase and decrease your friendship XP, I’ll refer you to this Stardew Wiki page about friendship.
stardewvalleywiki.com – https://stardewvalleywiki.com/Friendship
Quality | Multiplier | Effect |
Normal | x1 | +0% |
Silver |
x1,1 | +10% |
Gold |
x1,25 | +25% |
Iridium |
x1,5 | +50% |
About Abigail
Now you know how the friendship system works in Stardew Valley, let’s go over some of the information you’ll want to know about Abigail before you start giving her gifts.
Abigail lives at the general store with her parents. She sometimes fights with her mom, who worries about Abigail’s “alternative lifestyle”. Her mom has the following to say: “I wish Abby would dress more appropriately and stop dyeing her hair blue. She has such a wonderful natural hair color, just like her grandmother did. Oh, and I wish she’d find some wholesome interests instead of this occult nonsense she’s into.” You might find Abigail alone in the graveyard, or maybe out in a rainstorm looking for frogs.
Abigail is one of the 12 characters the player is able to marry. Her birthday is the 13th of Fall, you can use this day to give her a gift for increased friendship XP.
Abigail’s Schedule – Spring
During the different seasons Abigail has a schedule she’ll keep to. Knowing this schedule will make it easier to find her to talk to her and give her gifts. On Sunny days during Spring/Summer/Fall she’ll often be standing on the bridge at the river east of Pierre’s General Store.
Spring
Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday
Time | Location |
9:00 am | Leaves her room to go to the kitchen |
10:30 pm | Leaves the kitchen to stand in Pierre’s store |
1:00 pm | Leaves the house to go to stand on bridge near JojaMart |
1:30 pm | Standing on the bridge near JojaMart |
4:30 pm | Heads home |
5:20 pm | In her room, playing video games |
7:30 pm | Goes to bed for the night |
Wednesday
Time | Location |
10:00 am | Leaves home to go to the museum |
12:00 am | Inside Museum library looking at books |
6:00 pm | Walks to the graveyard |
7:00 pm | Stands in front of Mona’s grave |
10:00 pm | Heads home |
10:40 pm | Arrives at home |
Friday
Time | Location |
9:00 am | Leaves her room to go to the kitchen |
11:00 am | Leaves the kitchen to stand in Pierre’s store |
3:00 pm | Leaves home to go to the Stardrop Saloon |
3:50 pm | In The Stardrop Saloon, sitting on a sofa in the arcade |
9:00 pm | Heads home |
9:40 pm | Arrives home |
Sunday
Time | Location |
9:00 am | In her room |
10:30 am | Leaves her room to go into Caroline and Pierre’s room |
1:00 pm | Leaving home to go to the Wizard’s Tower |
4:00 pm | Near Wizard’s Tower in Cindersap Forest |
8:00 pm | Heads home |
10:30 pm | Arrives home |
Abigail’s Schedule – Summer
Summer
Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday
Time | Location |
9:00 am | Leaves her room to go to the kitchen |
11:00 am | Leaves home and walks to the train platform |
1:00 pm | Waits in front of the train platform |
2:00 pm | Walks to the lake, east of Robin’s carpenter shop |
3:00 pm | Stands by the mountain lake, east of Robin’s carpenter shop |
5:30 pm | Heads home |
7:30 pm | Goes to bed for the night |
Wednesday
Time | Location |
10:00 am | Leaves home to head to the library |
12:00 pm | Inside the library, looking at books |
6:00 pm | Walks to the graveyard |
7:00 pm | Stands in front of Mona’s grave |
10:00 pm | Heads home |
10:40 pm | Arrives home |
Friday
Time | Location |
9:00 am | Leaves her room to go to the kitchen |
11:00 am | Leaves the kitchen to stand in Pierre’s store |
3:00 pm | Leaves home to go to the Stardrop Saloon |
3:50 pm | In The Stardrop Saloon, sitting on a sofa in the arcade |
9:00 pm | Heads home |
9:40 pm | Arrives home |
Sunday
Time | Location |
9:00 am | In her room |
10:30 am | Leaves her room to go into Caroline and Pierre’s room |
1:00 pm | Leaving home to go to the Wizard’s Tower |
4:00 pm | Near Wizard’s Tower in Cindersap Forest |
8:00 pm | Heads home |
10:30 pm | Arrives home |
Abigail’s Schedule – Fall
Fall
Monday
Time | Location |
9:00 am | Inside her room |
11:00 am | Leaves her room to go to the beach |
1:00 pm | Stands at the end of the long pier, left of Willy’s fishing shop |
Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday
Time | Location |
9:00 am | Leaves her room to go to the kitchen |
10:30 am | Leaves the kitchen to stand in Pierre’s store |
1:00 pm | Leaves Pierre’s store to stand at the bus stop |
2:20 pm | Stands at the bus stop |
5:00 pm | Leaves bus stop to head home |
6:30 pm | In her room, playing videogames |
7:30 pm | Goes to bed for the night |
Wednesday
Time | Location |
10:30 am | Leaves home to go to the library |
12:00 pm | Inside the library, looking at books |
6:00 pm | Leaves the library and heads to the graveyard |
7:00 pm | Stands in front of Mona’s grave |
10:00 pm | Heads home |
10:40 pm | Arrives home |
Friday
Time | Location |
9:00 am | Leaves home to go to the kitchen |
11:00 am | Leaves the kitchen to stand in Pierre’s store |
3:00 pm | Leaves Pierre’s store to go to the Stardrop Saloon |
3:50 pm | In The Stardrop Saloon, sitting on a sofa in the arcade |
9:00 pm | Heads home |
9:40 pm | Arrives home |
Sunday
Time | Location |
9:00 am | In her room |
10:30 am | Leaves her room to go into Caroline and Pierre’s room |
1:00 pm | Leaving home to go to the Wizard’s Tower |
4:00 pm | Near Wizard’s Tower in Cindersap Forest |
8:00 pm | Heads home |
10:30 pm | Arrives home |
Abigail’s Schedule – Winter
Winter
Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday
Time | Location |
9:00 am | Leaves her room to go to the kitchen |
10:30 am | Walks to Robin’s carpenter shop, stands next to the counter |
2:30 pm | Heads back home and plays video games |
7:30 pm | Goes to bed for the night |
Wednesday
Time | Location |
10:30 am | Leaves home to go to the library |
12:00 pm | Inside the library, looking at books |
6:00 pm | Leaves the library and heads to the graveyard |
7:00 pm | Stands in front of Mona’s grave |
10:00 pm | Heads home |
10:40 pm | Arrives home |
Friday
Time | Location |
9:00 am | Leaves home to go to the kitchen |
11:00 am | Leaves the kitchen to stand in Pierre’s store |
3:00 pm | Leaves Pierre’s store to go to the Stardrop Saloon |
3:50 pm | In The Stardrop Saloon, sitting on a sofa in the arcade |
9:00 pm | Heads home |
9:40 pm | Arrives home |
Sunday
Time | Location |
9:00 am | In her room |
10:30 am | Leaves her room to go into Caroline and Pierre’s room |
1:00 pm | Leaving home to go to the Wizard’s Tower |
4:00 pm | Near Wizard’s Tower in Cindersap Forest |
8:00 pm | Heads home |
10:30 pm | Arrives home |
Abigail’s Loved Gifts
Now that you know a little bit more about Abigail and what she is up to during the day it’s time to start looking at what she likes and what she does not like to receive in terms of gifts.
Since there are universal likes that apply to every villager, with some exceptions, I’ll only be mentioning the items Abigail loves, likes, dislikes and hates to keep the guide simple and to the point. Giving loved gifts to a villager will give +80 friendship XP towards your total. Abigail’s loved gifts are as follows;
Abigail’s Loved Gifts
Image | Item | Obtained by |
Amethyst | Obtained from mining in the caves | |
Blackberry Cobbler | Use 2 Blackberries, Wheat Flour and Sugar in your kitchen, this recipe is obtained by watching The Queen of Sauce on the 14th of Fall in Year 2 | |
Chocolate Cake | Use an Egg, Wheat Flour and Sugar in your kitchen, this recipe is obtained by watching The Queen of Sauce on the 14th of Winter in Year 1 | |
Pufferfish | Obtained by fishing in the ocean during Summer on sunny days between 12pm and 4pm | |
Pumpkin | Obtained by growing pumkin seeds on your farm, available at Pierre’s General Store | |
Spicy Eel | Use an Eel and Hot Pepper in your kitchen, this recipe is obtained by reaching 7+ hearts with George |
Abigail’s Liked Gifts
Now onto the liked gifts. Giving liked gifts to a villager will give +45 friendship XP towards your total. Abigail only has one liked gift which is as follows;
Abigail’s Liked Gifts
Image | Item | Obtained by |
Quartz | Found by foraging in the mines |
Abigail’s Disliked Gifts
Giving disliked gifts to a villager will take -20 friendship XP towards your total. Abigail’s disliked gifts are as follows;
Abigail’s disliked Gifts
Image | Item | Obtained by |
Sugar | Obtained by using Beets in the mill, Sugar can also be purchased in Pierre’s General Store for 100 | |
Wild Horseradish | Found by foraging during Spring |
Abigail’s Hated Gifts
Giving hated gifts to a villager will take -40 friendship XP towards your total. Abigail’s hated gifts are as follows;
Abigail’s Hated Gifts
Image | Item | Obtained by |
Clay | Obtained by digging up dirt, sand or artifact spots. It can also be obtained from opening geodes | |
Holly | Obtained by foraging in Stardew Valley during Winter |
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