Growing Up – All friendship achievement complete guide

Growing Up – All friendship achievement complete guide

Welcome to the ultimate guide for earning all friendship achievements in Growing Up! I’ve compiled this comprehensive walkthrough based on my personal playthrough experiences. Whether you’re aiming to unlock every character’s story or just looking for tips on building relationships, this guide has you covered.

Introduction

Growing Up features nine characters in the original story and three additional characters with the DLC. To earn the friendship achievement with each character, you’ll need to select specific dialogue options throughout the game. Let’s dive into the details for each character!

Alex

Elementary School

1. Scene 1:
   • Choose “Superheroes”

   School Entrance Unlocks

2. Scene 2:
   • Choose “The girl can be the hero”
   • Choose “Save the other kid first”
3. Scene 3:
   • Choose “Play along”
   • Choose “Ask about parents”
4. Scene 4:
   • Choose “Go to sports hall”
   • Choose “Defend Alex”

   Gym and Library Unlock

5. Scene 5:
   • Choose “Let’s jump”
   • Choose “Do it”
   • Choose “Help the boy”

   Ghost Water Park Unlocks

6. Scene 6:
   • Choose “Stay quiet”
   • Choose “Agree with Alex”
7. Scene 7:
   • Choose “Sympathize”
   • Choose “Agree to race Alex”

Middle School

8. Scene 8:
   • Choose “Stay calm”
   • Choose “It’s Alex”

   Corridor Unlocks

9. Scene 9:
   • Choose “The Ship”
   • Choose “Play to win”

   Starcade 80 Unlocks

10. Scene 10:
    • Choose “Go to the mall”
    • Choose “Bring it home”
    • Choose “High five”
11. Scene 11:
    • Choose “Stay with Alex”
12. Scene 12:
    • Choose “You head in”

    Fantasy Carnival Unlocks

13. Scene 13:
    • Choose “It’s cool!”
14. Scene 14:
    • Choose “Go to Space Sheep”
    • Choose “Big Talking Yak”
    • Choose “Let’s beat this guy”
15. Scene 15:
    • Choose “Rollercoaster”
    • Choose “Shooting Gallery”

High School

16. Scene 16:
    • Choose “Look for Alex”
    • Choose “Lobby”
17. Scene 17:
    • Choose “Ask about Alex”
    • Choose “Worried”
18. Scene 18:
    • Choose “Check Space Sheep”
    • Choose “Purple Sheep”
19. Scene 19:
    • Choose “Shooting Gallery”
    • Choose “Visit Alex”
20. Scene 20:
    • Choose “Say hello”
    • Choose “Ask about the dares”

    Hospital Unlocks

21. Scene 21:
    • Choose “Just friends” or “In love with Alex” (if you are male)
22. Scene 22:
    • Choose “Offer help”
    • Choose “Go to the arcade”

The good ending for Alex is that she buys the arcade and names it “Alex’s Arcade”.

Alicia

Middle School

1. Scene 1:
   • Choose “Get Involved”
   • Choose “Defend the Girl”
2. Scene 2:
   • Choose “Yell at her”
   • Choose “Ruin her lunch”

   Cafeteria Unlocks

3. Scene 3:
   • Choose “Make fun Alicia”
4. Scene 4:
   • Choose “Head over”
   • Choose “Empathize with her”
   • Choose “Offer peace”
   • Choose “Take her up on it”
5. Scene 5:
   • Choose “Ask if she really hates her”
   • Choose “Is it for her parents?”
   • Choose “Admit her life sounds hard”
6. Scene 6:
   • Choose “Chat casually”
   • Choose “Ask about brother”
   • Choose “Ask about her future”

   Fantasy Carnival Unlocks

7. Scene 7:
   • Choose “Just hang out”
   • Choose “Agree it’ll be lame”

   Sports Field Unlocks

High School

8. Scene 8:
   • Choose “Joke with her”
   • Choose “Join her at lunch”
9. Scene 9:
   • Choose “This is a bad idea”
   • Choose “Stuck with Alicia”
10. Scene 10:
    • Choose “Sit next to her”
    • Choose “Support her”

    Ghost Water Park Unlocks

11. Scene 11:
    • Choose “Ask about that”

    Hospital Unlocks

12. Scene 12:
    • Choose “Tell her to buck up”
    • Choose “Ask about her family”
    • Choose “Tell her to be nice”
13. Scene 13:
    • Choose “Ask her why she cares”
    • Choose “Talk her into asking her brother”
    • Choose “Go to the art gallery”
14. Scene 14:
    • Choose “Show her your favorite painting”
    • Choose “Put your arm around her”
    • For friendship: Choose “Just enjoy the evening”
    • For relationship: Choose “Kiss Alicia”

    Art Space Gallery Unlocks

15. Scene 15:
    • Choose “Suggest a fundraiser”
    • Choose “Focus on business”
    • For friendship: Choose “Say you are going to community college”
    • For relationship: Choose “Kiss her deeply”

The good ending for Alicia is that she becomes a non-profit business consultant.

Bobby

Elementary School

1. Scene 1:
   • Choose “Get closer”
   • Choose “Agree to Watch!”
   • Choose “Laugh”
2. Scene 2:
   • Choose “Nod empathetically”
   • Choose “Just go”
   • Choose “Thank Bobbie”
3. Scene 3:
   • Choose “Say your parents love that song”
   • Choose “Sing with her”
4. Scene 4:
   • Choose “Head over”
   • Choose “Compliment her”
   • Choose “Invite her over”
5. Scene 5:
   • Choose “Ask where she is from”
6. Scene 6:
   • Choose “You didn’t like it”
   • Choose “He is kind of intense”
   • Choose “Excited about middle school”
7. Scene 7:
   • Choose “New beginnings can be fun”

Middle School

8. Scene 8:
   • Choose “You like it”
   • Choose “Smile”
9. Scene 9:
   • Choose “Write her a note”
10. Scene 10:
    • Choose “Goof off with her”
    • Choose “Agree to go to the play”
11. Scene 11:
    • Choose “Sing along with her”
    • Choose “Ask about her family”
12. Scene 12:
    • Choose “Agree to read lines”
    • Choose “Compliment Bobby”
13. Scene 13:
    • Choose “Congratulate her”
14. Scene 14:
    • Choose “Play along”

High School

15. Scene 15:
    • Choose “Match her enthusiasm”
    • Choose “Talk about her parents”
16. Scene 16:
    • Choose “Psst back”
    • Choose “Guess fetal pigs”
    • Choose “Do the cutting”
17. Scene 17:
    • Choose “Cheer her on”
    • Choose “Tell her she did great”
18. Scene 18:
    • Choose “Help her run lines”
19. Scene 19:
    • Choose “Ask why he did it”
20. Scene 20:
    • Choose “Just read lines with her”
    • Choose “Do the voice”
21. Scene 21:
    • Choose “Tell him its Bobby”
    • Choose “Say she was great”

The good ending for Bobby is that she finds success in off-Broadway productions.

Charles

Middle School

1. Scene 1:
   • Choose “Greet him with excitement”
   • Choose “Ask ‘and what’s that?'”
   • Choose “Cross your heart”
   • Choose “Nod at the slogan”
   • Choose “Thank him for his time”
   • Choose “Drop a vote for ‘The Hoffer'”
2. Scene 2:
   • Choose “Say hi”
   • Choose “Tell him it was no big deal”
   • Choose “Tell the truth”
   • Choose “Join his ‘committee'”
3. Scene 3:
   • Choose “Tell him that one seems good”
   • Choose “Crush him!”
4. Scene 4:
   • Choose “Ask him who he likes at school”
   • Choose “Sit with him”
5. Scene 5:
   • Choose “Ask about his sister”
   • Choose “Laugh”
6. Scene 6:
   • Choose “Yup”
   • Choose “Real life is just life”
7. Scene 7:
   • Choose “Tell him to go for it”
   • Choose “He shouldn’t care what people think”
   • Choose “Admit you care about it too”
8. Scene 8:
   • Choose “Ask what his sister thinks”
   • Choose “Tell him to respect her wishes”

High School

9. Scene 9:
   • Choose “Tell him it’s all cool”
10. Scene 10:
    • Choose “Tell him you’ll vote for him”
11. Scene 11:
    • Choose “Vote for The Hoffer”
12. Scene 12:
    • Choose “Go check on him”
13. Scene 13:
    • Choose “Don’t make it weird” (Note: “Put your hand on his” will start romance)
    • Choose “Be yourself”
14. Scene 14:
    • Choose “Ask if he really wants this”
15. Scene 15:
    • Choose “He should talk to Dad”

Felicity

High School

1. Scene 1:
   • Choose “Agree”
   • Choose “Tell her Coach sent you”
   • Choose “Make a joke”
2. Scene 2:
   • Choose “Get something to eat”
   • Choose “Ask about her parents”
3. Scene 3:
   • Choose “Complain”
   • Choose “Ask if she is hungry”
   • Choose “Wish her luck”
4. Scene 4:
   • Choose “Just let her rant”
   • For friendship: Choose “Hug her”
   • For romance: Choose “Kiss her” then “Kiss her again”
5. Scene 5:
   • Choose “Ask her why she doesn’t eat”
   • Choose “Tell her that her health matters”
   • Choose “Talk about the future”
   • Choose “Admit that you like kids”
6. Scene 6:
   • Choose “Just hold her”
   • Choose “Take care of yourself”
7. Scene 7:
   • Choose “Agree with her”
   • Choose “Ask about her brother”
8. Scene 8:Her brother dies
9. Scene 9:
   • Choose “Go look for Felicity”
   • Choose “Go Inside”
   • If you are a boy: Choose “Stay silent!”
   • Choose “You were wrong”
   • If you are romancing her: Choose “Say you love her”

The good ending for Felicity is that she opens up a restaurant and provides for her family.

Jake

Elementary School

1. Scene 1:
   • Choose “Help Buddy”
   • Choose “Help the small kid”
   • Choose “Bullies got lucky”
   • Choose “High Five”
2. Scene 2:
   • Choose “Great Jake as well”
   • Choose “Suggest hanging out with all three of you”
3. Scene 3:
   • Choose “Ask Jake what he is into”
   • Choose “Show your drawings”
   • Choose “Compliment the hero”
4. Scene 4:
   • Choose “Be the Healing Hand”
   • Choose “Back Jake up”
5. Scene 5:
   • Choose “Say you are ‘Super Zap'”
   • Choose “Resurrect Jake”
6. Scene 6:
   • Choose “Stand your ground”
7. Scene 7:
   • Choose “Exciting”
   • Choose “We won’t be alone”

Middle School

8. Scene 8:
   • Choose “Out of the house?”
   • Choose “Nod”
9. Scene 9:
   • Choose “Partake”
   • Choose “Just enjoy your time”
10. Scene 10:
    • Choose “Ditch Ditch Ditch”
11. Scene 11:
    • Choose “Give a cool nod”
    • Choose “Lean against the tree”
12. Scene 12:
    • Choose “Back him up”
    • Choose “Wait be cool”
    • Choose “Continue to back him up”
13. Scene 13:
    • Choose “Take the beer”
14. Scene 14:
    • Choose “TV’s rarely realistic”
    • Choose “Anytime”

High School

15. Scene 15:
    • Choose “Meet at the park”
    • Choose “Help him yourself”
    • Choose “Talk him out of this”
16. Scene 16:
    • For Romance: Choose “Ask to fool around”
    • Choose “Ask about gang stuff”
    • Choose “Ask why he got on drugs”
    • Choose “Sigh but don’t narc”
17. Scene 17:
    • Choose “Agree Jake’s in trouble”
    • Choose “Tell him to stop the gang stuff”
18. Scene 18:
    • Choose “Lawyer movie could be fun”
    • Choose “Agree with Jake’s dad”
19. Scene 19:
    • Choose “Talk Jake out of it”
20. Scene 20:
    • Choose “Go talk Jake out of it”
    • Choose “Demand Jake come with you”
21. Scene 21:
    • Choose “You are being melodramatic”
    • Choose “Be nice about it”
    • Choose “Reminisce about the past”

Note: The author mentions they haven’t gotten the good ending with Jake yet, but this path will at least keep him alive and get the achievement.

Kato

High School

1. Scene 1:
   • Choose “Work Together”
   • Choose “Approach Kato and Ask”
   • Choose “Ask Kato to work together”
2. Scene 2:
   • Choose “Don’t check”
3. Scene 3:
   • Choose “Hang out with Kato”
   • Choose “That’s cool”
4. Scene 4:
   • Choose “Go in and say hi”
5. Scene 5:
   • Choose “What if the light-bringer was the sun?”
   • Choose “Ask Kato about his player name”
6. Scene 6:
   • Choose “Kato’s pretty great”
   • Choose “Tell him he’s got this”
7. Scene 7:
   • For friendship: Choose “Tell him he is a good friend”
   • For romance: Choose “Tell him he is cute” (only if you are a girl)
8. Scene 7.5:Exclusive to dating Kato
   • Choose “roll the dice”
9. Scene 8:
   • Friendship has no choices
   • For Romance: Choose “Go public”

In the good ending, Kato becomes a doctor and writes a fantasy novel.

Nathan

Middle School

1. Scene 1:
   • Choose “Don’t read it”
2. Scene 2:
   • Choose “Ask Nathan what he writes”
3. Scene 3:
   • Choose “Be nice about Nathan”
4. Scene 4:
   • Choose “Take the notebook”
   • Choose “Suggest feeding the ducks”
5. Scene 5:No dialogue options
6. Scene 6:
   • Choose “Change the subject”
7. Scene 7:
   • Choose “Stop Nathan”
8. Scene 8:
   • Choose “Ask about stolen Notebook”
   • Choose “Disagree”
9. Scene 9:Nathan tells you that he is going to High School with you

High School

10. Scene 10:
    • Choose “Encourage Nathan to make friends”
11. Scene 11:
    • Choose “Say hello”
12. Scene 12:
    • Choose “Go in”
    • Choose “Open stall door”
    • Choose “Focus on Nate”
13. Scene 13:
    • Choose “Hug him”
14. Scene 14:No dialogue options
15. Scene 15:
    • Choose “Go to the park”
    • For Friendship: Choose “Happy to be his friend”
    • For Romance: Choose “Want something more”
16. Scene 16: (Date)
    • Choose “Go do something musical”
    • Choose “Raw music”
17. Scene 17:
    • Choose “You are playing music”
    • Choose “Suggest sharing a place”

The good ending for Nathan is that he becomes a vet and continues playing the guitar.

Richard

Elementary School

1. Scene 1:
   • Choose “Tell him it sounds good”

   Library Unlocks

2. Scene 2:
   • Choose “What is electronica?”

   School Entrance Unlocks

3. Scene 3:
   • Choose “Ask what he’s playing”
   • Choose “Talk about Dinosaurs”
4. Scene 4:
   • Choose “Get xylophone”
5. Scene 5:
   • Choose “Talk about Music”
   • Choose “Invite him over”

   Gym Unlocks

6. Scene 6:
   • Choose “Listen to your parents’ tapes”
7. Scene 7:
   • Choose “It’s ok”
8. Scene 8:
   • Choose “Help him”
   • Choose “Excited”

Middle School

9. Scene 9:
   • Choose “Ask what’s new”
   • Choose “Hang out”

   Corridor Unlocks

10. Scene 10:
    • Choose “Meet him later”
    • Choose “Ask him why he’s into music”
    • Choose “Say you don’t get it”

    Cineplex 8 unlocks

11. Scene 11:
    • Choose “Ask if he’s trying out”
    • Choose “Tell him to try out”
12. Scene 12:
    • Choose “Push him hard to join”
    • Choose “Apologize”
13. Scene 13:
    • Choose “Push the big kid away”
    • Choose “That’s cool”

    Starcade 80 Unlocks

14. Scene 14:
    • Choose “Cheer him on”
15. Scene 15:
    • Choose “Your voice kind of cracked”
    • Choose “Make a joke”
16. Scene 16:
    • Choose “Ask him what he thinks”
    • Choose “Support him”
    • Choose “School’s annoying”

High School

17. Scene 17:School Entrance unlocks

    No choices

18. Scene 18:
    • Choose “Greet him normally”
    • Choose “Sit with him quietly”
19. Scene 19:Richard avoids you
20. Scene 20:
    • Choose “Ask him what’s wrong”
    • Choose “Let it go”
21. Scene 21:
    • Choose “Act Impressed”
22. Scene 22:
    • Choose “Let him take his time”
    • Choose “Let’s just stay friends” or “Admit you have feelings for him”

    Library Unlocks

23. Scene 23:
    • Choose “Make him do his part”
    • If dating: Choose “Ask to hold his hand”

The good ending for Richard is that he puts his music out there and becomes a semi-successful producer.

Sam

High School

1. Scene 1:
   • Choose “Yell at him”
   • Choose “Accept his apology”
2. Scene 2:
   • Choose “Ok! Yes fine!”
3. Scene 3:
   • Choose “Have a beer”
   • Choose “Video games?”
4. Scene 4:
   • Choose “Talk about the future”
5. Scene 5:
   • Choose “There is more than just football”
   • Choose “Tell him he is smart”
6. Scene 6:
   • Choose “Support Sam”
7. Scene 7:
   • Choose “Talk him out of playing”
8. Scene 8:
   • Choose “Whatever he wants”

Vivica

High School

1. Scene 1:
   • Choose “Don’t read it”
   • Choose “Give the notebook back”
2. Scene 2:
   • Choose “Be cool about it”

   Bathroom unlocks

3. Scene 3:
   • Choose “Go to dinner”
   • Choose “Say you like poetry”
   • Choose “Be casual”
4. Scene 4:
   • Choose “Agree to help”
   • Choose “Thank her for trusting you”
   • Choose “Say she’s special”
5. Scene 5:
   • Choose “Admit it sounds interesting”
   • Choose “Ask her for a hit”
   • Choose “Gush about the Band”
   • For Romance (only if you are a girl): Choose “Kiss Her”
   • For Friendship: Choose “Be nice”
   • Choose “Talk about music”

Note: The author mentions that they are still updating this part.

Wendy

Middle School

1. Scene 1:
   • Choose “Apologize”
2. Scene 2:
   • Choose “Ask about horror films”
   • Choose “Go to the movie”
3. Scene 3:
   • Choose “You loved the movie”
4. Scene 4:
   • Choose “Tell her you can’t go”
   • Choose “Make plans to meet again”
5. Scene 5:
   • Choose “Talk about PE”
6. Scene 6:
   • Choose “Cut class”
7. Scene 7:
   • Choose “Push for Drama Club”
8. Scene 8:
   • Choose “Ask if she is okay”

High School

9. Scene 9:
   • Choose “Talk to her”
10. Scene 10:
    • Choose “Offer Wendy a ride home”
11. Scene 11:
    • Choose “Go to the park”
12. Scene 12:
    • Choose “Cutting Class 101”
    • Choose “Support Wendy”
13. Scene 13:
    • Choose “Go after her”
14. Scene 14:
    • Choose “Find out more about her plan”
    • Choose “Help Wendy”
15. Scene 15:
    • Choose “It was great”

Tips for Success

• Pay attention to each character’s personality and interests. Your choices should align with what they value.
• Be consistent in your interactions. Characters appreciate when you remember details about them and their lives.
• Don’t be afraid to replay scenes if you’re not happy with the outcome. Sometimes, a different choice can lead to a better result.
• Keep in mind that some choices may lead to romantic paths. If you’re aiming for friendship achievements, be careful not to send mixed signals.
• Explore different locations as they unlock. These often provide new opportunities to interact with characters.
• Remember that your choices have consequences. What might seem like a small decision could have a big impact later in the game.

Conclusion

Congratulations! You now have a comprehensive guide to earning all friendship achievements in “Growing Up”. This game offers a rich, character-driven experience where your choices truly matter. As you navigate through elementary, middle, and high school, you’ll have the opportunity to form deep connections with a diverse cast of characters.

Remember, while this guide provides a roadmap to friendship achievements, the true joy of the game comes from experiencing these relationships and watching them evolve over time. Each character has their own unique story, challenges, and growth, and it’s rewarding to be a part of their journey.

As you play, you might find that some scenes or outcomes differ slightly from this guide. That’s the beauty of “Growing Up” – it’s a dynamic game that can surprise you with its depth and variability. Don’t be afraid to make choices that feel right to you, even if they differ from this guide. Sometimes, the most memorable moments come from unexpected decisions.

Lastly, keep in mind that this guide is still being updated as more playthroughs are completed. Characters like Vivica may have incomplete information, and new insights might be added over time. Feel free to check back for updates or contribute your own findings to the community.

Good luck, have fun, and enjoy growing up alongside these wonderfully crafted characters!

About the Author

As an avid player of “Growing Up”, I’ve spent countless hours exploring every nook and cranny of this game. My journey through the virtual halls of elementary, middle, and high school has been filled with laughter, tears, and unforgettable moments. I created this guide to help fellow players navigate the complex web of relationships in the game, sharing the insights I’ve gained through multiple playthroughs.

While I strive for accuracy, please note that some sections (like Vivica’s) are still being updated as I continue to play and discover new aspects of the game. I encourage you to use this guide as a starting point but don’t be afraid to experiment and find your own path through the game. After all, that’s what growing up is all about!

If you have any tips, corrections, or experiences you’d like to share, please feel free to reach out. Gaming is best when we share our knowledge and experiences with each other. Happy gaming, and may your journey through “Growing Up” be as rewarding as mine has been!